Falling in Love On The Way To Bethlehem
Luke 1:26-38 In the sixth month, God sent the angel Gabriel
to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, to a virgin pledged to be married to a man
named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. The angel went
to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.”
Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this
might be. But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, you have found
favor with God. You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to
give him the name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the
Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he
will reign over the house of Jacob forever; his kingdom will never end.”
“How will this be?” Mary asked the angel, “Since I am a
virgin?”
The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and
the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will
be called the Son of God…For nothing is impossible with God.”
“I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May it be to me
as you have said.” Then the angel left her.
Matthew 1:18-25 This is how the birth of Jesus Christ came
about: His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they
came together, she was found to be with child through the Holy Spirit. Because
Joseph her husband was a righteous man and did not want to expose her to public
disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly. But after he had considered
this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of
David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is
conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you
are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their
sins.” All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the
prophet: “The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and they
will call him Immanuel” – which means “God with us.” When Joseph woke up, he
did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his
wife. But he had no union with her until she gave birth to a son. And he gave
him the name Jesus.”
We don’t
know much about the marriage of Jesus’ parents. We know their union was
arranged. We know that, when Joseph found out Mary was pregnant before they’d
gotten married, he planned to break off their engagement. We know that they did
end up married and they had several children. We know Joseph claimed Jesus as
his son and taught him his trade. Lastly, we know that by the time Jesus was
crucified, Mary was a widow.
First of
all, what changed Joseph’s mind? Well, an angel showed up and very much scared
the fidelity into him.
There are
all sorts of reasons to marry someone: feelings of love and security; feelings
of adventure and excitement; money; good looks; politics; pier pressure; a
solution to loneliness…I could go on.
The tricky
thing about these reasons is that all of those things are changeable. Feelings
change. Money is fickle. Good looks will leave you. People’s minds and opinions
will constantly shift. And loneliness is much more an internal condition than
an external one.
Joseph
married Mary for exactly one reason: because God told him to. And that, dear
friends, is one thing that will never change.
“Your word,
O LORD, is eternal; it stands firm in the heavens.” Psalm 119:89.
“The word
of the LORD stands forever.” Isaiah 40:8.
“God is not
a man, that He should lie, nor is He a son of man, that He should change His
mind. Does He speak and then not act? Does He promise and not fulfill?” Numbers
23:19.
Wouldn’t it
be awesome if someone married you with the one reason that would never ever
change? Wouldn’t it be the most secure feeling in the world to know that there
would never be divorce because your marriage was one based on something that
would never shift or change – the word of God?
And
wouldn’t it be frustrating to have to wait on that word from God and then have
to TRUST God to help that person be faithful? Wouldn’t it be so tempting to
think, “If only I were beautiful enough, rich enough, successful enough,
popular enough, so that way they’d hurry up and love me”?
I wonder if
Mary felt that way. She was pregnant and traveling across the country to a town
she didn’t know with a man who she could only hope would keep her safe. Every
mile she had to trust that God would work in Joseph’s life to draw him to her
and equally that God would work in her life to help her be the way God wanted
her to be. God was with Mary as she traveled on that long journey. She had to
surrender her life to the will of God – same as Joseph. They obeyed the words
God spoke to them and as they walked along that path with God, He gave them
each other.
Mary
couldn’t make Joseph love her. She had to trust God to work in him and she had
to be the woman God was calling her to be. She could not abandon God’s plan for
her in order to please Joseph. I mean, I suppose she could have told Gabriel,
“No, I’d rather just marry the carpenter.” And I’m sure she would have been a
lovely bride and they would have had beautiful children. There’s nothing wrong
with that. But that’s not what Mary did. She said yes to God’s plan for her –
God’s crazy, ridiculous, seemingly impossible plan! In saying yes to this plan,
Mary gambled with Joseph and that dream of a wedding and children. She could
have lost them. She nearly did. If Joseph had proceeded in divorcing her, she
would have been stoned to death. But God didn’t let that happen. Mary trusted
God with her dream of marrying this man and God intervened and told Joseph to
marry her.
Mary had to
trust God with her life and also with Joseph’s life. She couldn’t control him.
God gave Joseph a heart that was obedient to Him – imagine that! – and then
asked Joseph to do something that was incredibly difficult. God chose the right
people to be the parents of His Son. He chose the right man to risk marrying a
virgin who would be miraculously pregnant with the Son of God. God chose the
right girl who would risk her whole life – her physical life and her imagined
life, (which is harder to risk, I’m not sure) – to serve the Him.
Mary and
Joseph trusted God enough to do the crazy things He asked them to do. To me,
the coolest part is that while they were obeying orders that looked like the
end of their lives, God blessed them with everything: love, children, family,
togetherness.
God asks
you to do things that look absolutely insane. It’s scary and difficult. As you
follow, however, there you find fullness of life because – like Mary and Joseph
– when you follow God, you are quite literally traveling with Jesus.
I wonder
what Mary thought when she heard her son, her Jesus, preaching. I wonder if she
ever transposed memories. I wonder if, when she heard God the Son promise
things as He stood in dusty sandals surrounded by hungry people, she remembered
times in her life when doubt and fear had shaken her.
In the
darkness of her bedroom, before she was a mother, before she was a wife, a
tremendous light appeared and an angel spoke to her.
Gabriel said to her, “Do not be
afraid, Mary, you have found favor with God. You will be with child and give
birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus…”
She replied
to the angel, “I am the Lord’s servant. May it be to me as you have said.”
Then the
angel was gone and Mary was left alone.
I wonder if
Mary began to think, “God, what are You doing? This will destroy my life. This
will kill my dreams.”
And I
wonder if the strong and tender hands of Jesus ever caressed her wrinkled face,
full of simple love, and whispered,
“No,
Momma…I have come that you may have life, and have it to the full.”
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